So we've been a little busy....

I love my team. There isn't one person that I just don't like and want to run away from. We bonded quickly. We hit some stride or something very early and we've just been able to run with it. Because of this we don't have to help each other with their jobs, we want to help people with their jobs. It's been a huge blessing. I'm dreading the goodbye in front of the office come August. We don't have anyone who will hook up at the end of the summer so that took away what could have been potentially awkward situations or just drama. We all have this feeling of ok we can hang out and get to know each other, and those of us who are huggers, �can hug and know nothing but our friendship and family-hood are coming from it. We can really be honest about our lives and share a lot and just be real. This is the first team that I've been on that we've been this real, this early. We just kinda laid it on the table from day one and said lets go. Its fantastic. I couldn't ask for anything better. A lot of us are around the same stage of life. Some of us the exact same, its amazing to see how we got put together.
As for camp, this past week has been a blessing. Although it was a beast of a week, because we were doing 2 camps at the same time; we had an amazing band leading worship and a fantastic camp pastor. Both that really invested in our staff. They took a lot of time to hang out and get to know us. It was really encouraging after our last 2 weeks. It was an exhausting week that started when we left for the worship center every morning at 6:30 and ended around 12, with no stopping in-between. But it really was a great week. I loved being able to see God move in the lives of our students, and seeing how he worked in completely different ways in the 2 services (we did the same exact thing, but it was always different) it was amazing. It was also a time for us to do our job and figure out what was going on in the first service, but then we got to actually take a breath in the second one. I'm actually looking forward doing it again this time.
For awhile we kept going what's it going to be today, first week it was tornadoes, and evacuating students in the middle of the night. Second week, we had to deal with a fire marshall, and some other random things that went along with it. And then we walked into our third camp knowing the challenge ahead of time, 2 camps at a time. I will say though that our personalities aren't the greatest this week, we've already had our speaker once and he is not doing a single thing differently so the fact that we've got him 4 times a day isn't so great. But we do have fantastic concert artists this week and we love them.

God's been teaching me a lot about forgiveness lately. I know why. And I'm working on that.
Forgiveness sets you free. I know this, I've told students this over and over and over again. But it is so much easier to say to them than to do it in your own life. I mean how do I know while I'm removed from the situation and real life if its true, if I really do mean it. But I've got to be free of this, the path to healing is marked with forgiveness. If I'm striving to be like Jesus, Jesus forgave; and I can't keep this with me. I know that I still need to give forgiveness to some people, God reminds me constantly about it, that I need to work towards that, that its an important part of the healing process. God's really been working on me this week and I've gotten to this point where, it's easy for me to say right now I forgive you. I don't have to see you, I don't have to interact except through things (i.e. text, facebook, email). But I don't know if I can say I forgive you and know if I really mean it come August when camp is gone, when the support of my team isn't standing with me literally, and I'm thrown back into the real world where its not so easy. I can already feel the weight of this lifting by just being able to being comprehending this much and sharing it.
I've also come to this point where I know that I can't promise a friendship come August, but I'm praying that by then I can forgive you and be done with this. Its also been huge for me to realize that just because I forgive someone doesn't mean I have to be buddy buddy with them or go back to where I thought we were come August.
I'm going to be honest that as much as I wanted and needed camp to come, and I don't think I would have made it if camp hadn't come; it does make an actual healing process harder because I am so removed from the real world and the situation. Although it has also aided in that I've had an amazing team to just talk with and they've come along side me and my life has brought us closer. There are 3 of us girls that went through crap at the exact same time, and it has been amazing for us to sit and tell our stories and help each other, to give updates constantly and just to really be able to share real life.

It was reading tonight and both of these kinda slapped me in the face and well I'm learning....

14For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. - Matthew 6.14-15

38"You have heard that it was said, 'Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.'^[g] 39But I tell you, Do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. 40And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. 41If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. 42Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you. - Matthew 5.38-42

3"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. - Matthew 7.3-5